Love….a decisive term…a term that means so much to few but has no percentage for others. So what do we do when someone we cherish and love for years suddenly decides to just get up and walk away or decides to stab us in the back. Am not just talking about a college sweetheart or a girl who sits besides you at work, love for me has always been a concept where in all I wanted to do was be there for anyone and everyone I cherished, be it my chuddy buddy or a relative at home.

So I ask again what do we do ?

The initial trauma, the pain, the agony, the feeling in us which wishes everything just burnt up in flames and got over in a matter of seconds. The tears we shed, the ones that go un-noticed, the plastic smile we wear and the pain just waiting in our eyes ready to pour out and show the world what’s hidden so deep. The growth we feel has no end. Why did it happen to me? Where did I go wrong ?? Why didn’t I never see it coming?. Some of the few endless questions that eat you up with the break of dawn till the first rays of the full moon fade the blackness of the night.

Alcohol – Doped – Stoned !

While majority would sit at home and sulk at the grim memories of their cursed past, a selected few would love to seek comfort in the 3 stages of matter Liquid(Alcohol) Gaseous (Dope) Solid (The human body no longer capable for anything in this world). Drinking their pain till the bowls of pain can no longer withstand, giving flame to their agony till nothing unworthy stands in their mind and finally attaining a stage where one lye’s flat on his/her back, looking at the ceiling and wondering where did they reach and did it really help. Frankly speaking it never helped, the first thing u do when your heart breaks is go for the bed and cry your heart out, then you find alternate means to recover. My question to you, Did you really recover?

Your back on that same bed wondering Now What?.

Random Sex!

Although not a prominent trait of our female heart brokens, some men usually rush to seek the adrenaline of their frustrations going down and I mean way down their human psychology. “She broke my heart!!! I will sleep with 15 women and show her who was the best.” “He thinks only he can sleep around ??? Let me show how much I score !!!”. Visits to the unknown where the woman are better seen as the flesh hanging at a butchers store.

An hour of pleasure and your sorrows seem bleak.. You move out and head towards your home, the next day you meet someone new, you tear him/her apart and dump her the same way you were dumped, boosting your moral, finally feeling as the Dominator instead of the usual Dominated. I ask you again, Are you cured ?. Have the stains of the past really been wiped of your shackled heart?.

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Yeah!!! who doesn’t wanna go to the big lake and sit around its banks with a rod in one hand a dream in their eyes, “A fish oh god just one fish to help me get over this miserable aftermath”. The long hours warming your computer seat, endless chat blabbers and those illusive “We Must Meet Someday” dreams.

What’s your ASL, the 3 letters that lay the foundation of your glee future. By the end of the night I bet our victims gather enough ASLs’ to create their own statistic database for the population of their own and of their neighboring countries. When the day is over and the net switched off, the glass world you lived in for those few hours come down crumbling.

Now that I have been positive enough to close all possible doors to survival, what next do I have to offer to the so called broken hearted and the deceived. All I can say is take your time, pen your feelings if you have to, evaluate the pros and cons of the now dead relation, work on it and start a fresh. Although tough at first, things suddenly start to sort out. As a famous saying goes ‘God Never Made A Lock Without A Key’ the same way he never made a bad moment without the intent that us as his final gift to the world should know the true meaning of happiness when it rests on our shoulders.

Wake up my youth the world can be a challenging mass to be in, don’t loose hope and never give up.