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Shiv

Shiv — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

love leaves because we suffocate it & threaten to strangle with our vice like grip, our possessiveness , sense of ownership, the feeling of being the master or the condition that it will remain with us forever

it is a bird which visits my court yard now & then has its fill, chirp merrily & flies away despite our futile attempts to put it in a golden cage

letting it go & the spirit of sacrifice & sharing makes it visit us again & again ,in the end it refuses to go & of its own sits in the corner assigned for it

Priyanka Chakrabarty

Priyanka Chakrabarty — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

It is not good to harm ourself after a break up...coz it is we who suffer...life is a gift.....we have responsibilty towards our own life as well....be true to yourself....True love will find you someday.....people who do not respect your feelings actually do not deserve you

Michael C

Michael C — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Amen. A million per cent. That is a really pertinent comment. Thank you. As should others.....

Oscar

Oscar — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

This is an excellent post!! It clearly shows how all of us, in one way or another..seek the release of pain, but in the end learn...acceptance..life goes on.

Thanks!

Michael C

Michael C — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

...because it has to. We all need courage. May we all find it....as you say (and know) my friend Oscar, excellent post!!

ARVIND K.PANDEY

ARVIND K.PANDEY — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Life is name of such endless frustrations , break-ups.However ,there is no point in behaving like Devdas for so-called Paros. !!

Oscar

Oscar — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Very true Arvind..

Life IS the name. Ups and down, highs and lows, joys and sorrows..It’s all part of the grand plan...LIFE.

ARVIND K.PANDEY

ARVIND K.PANDEY — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

@ Oscar

Thanks Oscar.I have seen people spoiling their bright lives over insignificant happenings.Instead of learning lessons ,they commit suicide etc.I have no hesitation that temporary fever called love is taking its toll on teenagers.Yes , disappointments in real love holds meaning but I don’t think we aren’t so lucky to anticipate true love in modern times as frequently as these guys/gals come to believe they have.

Sachha Pyar Aaj Ke Jamane Mein ? Kis Chidiya Ka Naam Hai Ye Sachha Pyar

?-True love no longer exists in our times.It’s just a game played with vested interests in mind.

ARVIND K.PANDEY

ARVIND K.PANDEY — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Errata:

” I have no hesitation that temporary fever called love is taking its toll on teenagers.” should be read as ” I have no hesitation in stating that temporary fever called love is taking its toll on teenagers.”

ARVIND K.PANDEY

ARVIND K.PANDEY — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

One more correction:

Yes , disappointments in real love holds meaning but I don’t think we can anticipate true love in modern times as frequently as these guys/gals come to believe they have.

Oscar

Oscar — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

I think life for teens (I have a 21 and 15) year old is much more difficult and confusing than in the past.

Love was a much clearer concept in the past..Society now, along with media, has hyperexposed our kids to sexuality and more ofton than not links it with ”love”.. Kids are much more mature in adult content nowdays, but yet, lack the emotional maturity to relate and differentiate the two...

Apart from that, it’s not just teenagers..Adults feel the pain and seek remedies thru false hopes and release thru drugs, alcohol, and more..Seems the only true organ that our brains kind over-ride is the heart..when it breaks.

Shiv

Shiv — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

pl differentiate between love, lust , crush & infatuation

TO my mind love is, sensitivity ,empathy, feeling of affinity, positive vibes , being a well wisher

actually no words can describe a feeling just like a description of god

we can try by describing what love is not say lust which is simply an urge like going to toilet

i am sure love evolves us as a better human being as it involves sacrifice & not selfishness

we let go the person we love & not suffocate him /her by bindings/conditions

love is the captor not the captive every thing else is infatuation /crush, a temporary mental imbalance ,a state of mind overwhelmed with emotion

i love my country more than my life

i love humanity more than my country

one can love more than one person \it is like lighting one lamp with another

jyot se jyot jalate chalo prem ki ganga bahate chalo

let the light of love spread from one lamp to another like a river it embraces every one which crosses its path

I think this makes it very clear that love can do no harm to any one

Sarah

Sarah — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

I know.

It’s all very familiar...it never goes away, it just becomes a part of you that you learn to live with, it becomes part of your strength and character and weakness all in one.

My bed has seen many similar nights with only sleep as my comfort.

When love leaves us, I don’t think we need to say anything to the one who left us, or even do anything about it, I think when love leaves we just have to find it again, somewhere else, in different meaning or form. But it’s always there. Corny, but it’s always there.

Dr.Ratan Saini

Dr.Ratan Saini — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Love is the prime current and it is up to us how we feel it.

Kumar

Kumar — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 00:00:00 +0000

Very well expressed....and it happens to everyone. I guess, just like we are gonna die someday, we would be missing something if we miss this feeling. The word is so often misused these days, that the real definition is perhaps buried down somewhere in history.

Anjali Patel

Anjali Patel — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 00:00:00 +0000

Don’t be afraid to fail. Don’t waste energy trying to cover up failure. Learn from your failures and go on to the next challenge. It’s OK to fail. If you’re not failing, you’re not growing. Nothing can change the past but you can do something to change the future. Celebrate failure when you know you did your best but don’t settle there, Advance!”